How to Stay Confident & Humble? After putting a lot of hard work and efforts Two things can happen to any individual, either person will get success or person face the failure. Both things need to be handled properly otherwise it can turn worst. If You get success after putting a lot of efforts and hard work, if you reach the pinnacle of success, then reaching to such huge position is something which you truly deserve, and feeling proud of reaching that position is obvious and normal and there’s nothing wrong with it, because you’ve earned that success. But If you take that success to your head, then you are forgetting your humble beginning, you are forgetting that your humble, polite and genuine heart made you reach that position, you haven’t reached there because of your arrogance or because of unnecessary attitude. You have earned that success because of your hard work and hard work efforts can never be arrogant, hard work efforts and struggle is something which always stays humble and polite.
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And If you don’t get the result or outcome which you were hoping, then if you take that failure to your heart, then this will become your last failure, because taking failure to your heart means you are giving up, it means you don’t believe yourself, it means you don’t take that failure as a huge lesson of experience, and if you don’t take your experience and failure as your best teacher then becoming successful will for sure become impossible for you, Hence always remember don’t act extreme in any of these situation, if you get success then remain humble and understand that your success is not permanent, You can’t be owned success, success is at leased and rent is due every day, hence to maintain that success you need to stay humble, polite and you need to understand value of hard work smart work efforts and consistency, because of all these qualities you can get success, and if you don’t get an outcome as you were hoping then take that failure as your best experience and lesson and find out where you were lacking and then start again with new methods and never waste your hard work and efforts by giving up, learn from your past experience and move on with new methods, as it says stay stubborn with your goals and flexible with its method, this thing will make your never give up attitude stronger and will make you reach the position you always desired.
Some people even after facing huge success, they fail to maintain that position, why because they forget their humble beginning. They allow their success to go to their head and this thing becomes the huge reason for their unsuccessful life, they, unfortunately, start believing that they have owned success and this unfortunate misunderstanding of theirs becomes the biggest reason for their downfall. Hence it’s ok to feel happy and stay confident because you earned it, but it’s not ok to allow that success to go to your head, because ones it goes into your head then it only leaves your head when you face the downfall, hence always stay as humble and polite as you can, because this thing will not only maintain your position but it will also make others respect you, success with right attitude gives respect as well as money, hence always stay successful with right attitude, never feel you are superior then everyone, always understand that everyone in this world knows something which you won’t hence be humble polite and down to earth.
Feeling you are better than everyone will make your arrogant and feel you are nothing in front of anyone will make your confidence low and will hurt your self-esteem and self-respect, hence always stay confident & neutral always remember your humble beginning and always understand the importance of experience.
How to stay humble and how to stay confident:
1. Always understand that success is not owned
You will never allow success to go to your head if you understand this simple fact that success is never owned it is leased then you won’t become arrogant, because you will understand that success is a journey it’s not a destination, if you become successful, you can’t rest after getting successful you can’t rest because as soon as you take your eye off the ball you will risk losing your position or your success.
2. Never allow ego to influence your humble beginning
After facing success always stay around people who were always there with you, who were there in your struggle time, who supported you and who can say harsh truth to you who can give you the reality check because those people will always help you to stay humble, after getting success you will for sure face such people who always say yes to you for everything, such people will do nothing but feed your ego and this thing will make your ego stronger, hence always stay around people who always want good for you who always want you to stay humble polite because they know since your struggle hard working days and they will never feed your ego with “Yes”, they can show you the reality check when needed.
3. Always compete with yourself
Never compete with others, because if you compete with others and lose, then this thing will lower your self-esteem but if you compete with yourself then you will move towards self-improvement and this self-improvement will make you win.
4. Don’t think you know everything
Every expert in this world knows that there’s something in this world which they are not aware of, and Every person You meet in this world knows something that you don’t, hence never stop learning never stop growing, Admit when you don’t know something, and move towards learning and gaining knowledge because learning and knowledge will make you win and give you wisdom and knowledge.
5. Never forget your roots
If you see success in your life it doesn’t mean you to forget about your roots it doesn’t mean where you have come, it doesn’t mean you to forget what you’ve learned along the way, success should come with humble behavior and nature success should always remember you from where you came from and what you’ve learned along the way.
6. You will get respect only when you respect others
No matter how rich you are you will get respect of others only when you treat others with respect and dignity, A person never becomes successful by only money a person becomes successful when person has right attitude and behavior, because that behavior will give them respect and dignity, hence no matter how successful you are you will get dignity and respect only when you respect others.
Always remember money can’t get others trust and respect, your good behavior will give that trust respect and dignity and this will come with your humble and polite nature. Hence never allow your success to go to your head because your words and actions will integrity and success with integrity bring happiness and peace.
7. Stay Confident & Never show off
There’s a huge difference between Showing off and excitement, can say a huge difference between bragging and excitement, for example, you got a new cycle or a toy, you must be excited about it, but showing that excitement to someone who doesn’t even have enough food, then this excitement of yours will look as bragging in front of those people, hence need to understand that when you should show excitement and when shouldn’t , hence you need to be sensitive, you need to polite and humble and should understand situations and people properly.
Never Allow successes to go to the head, and never allow failure go to heart because both have a capability of ruining your happiness and peace.
These are the 7 tips To Stay Confident And Humble.